Wednesday, March 31, 2010
Recap of March 2010
Monday, March 29, 2010
An Interview with Historian Tony Judt
Interview Highlights
On how living with ALS makes him feel:
"You mustn't focus on what you can't do. If you sit around and think, 'I wish I could walk,' then you'll just be miserable. But if you sit and turn around and think, 'What's the next piece I'm going to write?' then you may not be happy, but you certainly won't wallow in misery. So it's an active choice every day to renew my interest in something that my head can do, so I don't think about the body."
On what he has learned from his ALS:
"Unlike cancer, which I've had in the past, or AIDS or some other major organic breakdown or disease, no one has any ideas how to fight it. So once you get past the thought that this is ridiculous — Why can't they do something? — you stop thinking of your body as the object to fight. ... I was a very controlling person. And for me, I did not like to be in the push car, to be in the stroller — because it meant my mother was in charge. ... And from very early on, I've hated depending on the kindness of others. And I'm learning to do so, and it's a very good sentimental education."
On what gives him pleasure:
"The thing about ALS is that there are only two things left, beyond your head, which still work. One is the reproductory apparatus, and one is the excretory apparatus. Then you keep those until you die. So you still get pleasure from sex, and you can still get pleasure from anything you can see, anything you can say — and although this may not last much longer, anything you can eat. ... Sometimes, I think, well, all the good things in life are still with me. Food. Sex. Videotapes. I've got it all — what's the problem?
A Recap of February 2010
Sunday, February 28, 2010
No Tsunami, But Lots of Throw Up
As Nana put it, "It was like watching paint dry" yesterday, as we all watched the tsunami warning coverage yesterday. No big waves materialized, but roads were closed, and people were sent to higher ground, bringing Mommy's friend Michelle and her family to the house even before the sun came up. We made sure our house guests, Michelle and Adam and baby Allison were well fed. Daddy made waffles, bacon, and a fruit salad for breakfast. Mommy made pizza and about 20 spam musubi (using her 3 at a time musubi maker that a parent gave her as a gift), introducing Adam (they're originally from Texas) to his first spam musubi. Baby Allison used my pack n play to take a 3 hour nap (the longest ever!). Then, I took a 3 hour nap after she woke up.